One of the guys at the club a few weeks ago gave me his number. I almost threw it away but for some reason I kept it. He had seemed real nice at the club and I decided to call him. We talked for a while and met for a drink and went back to his place afterward. He is really great in bed and we have been together most nights since.

Anyway, last Friday he suggested we go to the club on a date. It was different going in with a guy as a couple. We sat a and talked for a while and I didn't know for sure what we were going to do. I danced with a couple of women who asked me and we talked with one couple who wanted us to go to the couple's room with them but Rex (that is what I'll call him in this diary) didn't seem to want to.

Finally Rex asked me if I wanted to go to one of the open gruop rooms. We got up and walked through the hall to one of the rooms. When we got there Rex didn't say a word he just took my dress off and layed me down on one of the beds. He just watched while I had some fun with some guys who had followed us in there then he took me back to the bar and then back to his place.

He has been real nice to me and even bought me a new dress to wear to the club. I haven't been with anyone else (except at the club while he watched) since we got together. I haven't even wanted to. Anyway, that is what is happening in my life right now. I have settled in with Jenny at the apartment but I haven't spent too much time there in the last couple of weeks.

I have never tried the dressing room thing but I have gone in to the rest room at restaurants before and got myself off. When I am like that I can get off real quick but I have been using the showerhead for years to get off. Where ever I live I always get some guy to put in one of those showerheads that has a setting where the water squirts real hard and it is attached to a hose so you can move it down between your legs and hit the right places. I don't have one in my new apartment but my boyfriend has one at his house and I use it all the time. I can get off quick or I can just stay there and get right to the edge and then wait and stay that way for a long time.

I can't wait to hear about your experience! I've been wanting to try it myself. Hopefully one day soon.

Sometimes I wonder why we put up with men and then I remember ..... penises! You rock. Congratulations on "weight loss".

I put on a show for other people a couple of weeks ago It was not my first time to have others watch me have sex but it was my first time having a big crowd watch me and the "audience" was the big thrill for me. I really loved it! I keep thinking about the next time.

We have always used condoms except with each other when we have been with another couple. The other couples we were with felt the same way. We didn't have my husband's friend use a condom the first time but we did the second time.

I really didn't want to get in to a discussion with him about who he has been with since they separated. I think it is better to use them.

I like your pictures.

I always insist on a condom even with a boyfriend. Remember when you have sex with someone you are having sex with everyone they have had sex with and everyone all of those people have had sex with (I wish it could all be at the same time. That sounds like fun).

But seriously, I have had guys try to tell me that they have only been with their wife or girlfriend for the last 3 or 5 or one guy swore 14 years. Hey, he was there trying to do me right? Why should I believe him?

I would say never do it no matter what someone says. It is too dangerous and too big a chance.